Sometimes the hardest part is being okay with it

Nov 11, 2016
2 min read

Sometimes the hardest part is being okay with it.

As a parent sometimes the hardest part is being okay with what is happening, we dont want to be okay with what is happening, why would we it is our child that is going through this why would we be okay with what is happening to them especially through their darkest part. They are always our baby, we always want to protect them even when we cant.

Sometimes the hardest part is to remember that but not being okay with it we are stressing ourselves out way more, by stressing ourselves out we are not able to focus on the good and will only see the next hard part.

Although it is hard, although it is something we will need to practice we can choose to become okay with the hardest parts allow them to come and go and move through them faster and faster and move back to the good parts it is important to move past the hard parts so there can be more good.

So when you find your self going through a hard part a difficult time breath, sleep, take some naps as often as you can, meditate do things you love and remember this two will pass, this is going to be okay and just become loving because being loving just feels better.

And you know what you are worth feeling better.

I know that it is hard sometimes, I know that sometimes you just dont want to be okay, I know that sometimes you just want to be in the moment of not accepting, not appreciating, I know and you know what that is okay as well, it is okay to take those moments to break down to cry, to grieve, it is okay to allow yourself to be okay with this as well you deserve to cry, to grieve. Just dont stay here.

Keep moving forward, keep focusing on your goal, keep knowing, trusting and believing in what it is you are wanting, For us it is Matt healthy and seeing him so reminds me how close we are, yes sometimes bad things happen, a hiccup happens and we have to deal with this and yes sometimes I just need to cry and that is okay to, I know that I can just change my thoughts and choose better once get back on track and begin focusing again on our goal.

Just keep moving forward a wonderful reminder of this is a quote from Martin Luther King Jr

If you cant fly then run, If you cant run the walk, If you cant walk then crawl, but what ever you do you have to keep moving forward.

Every little step, every little bit just keep moving forward, dont give up no matter what always look for a way, always look for something else, have faith, have hope and believe that a way will show up for you.

Believe that it is happening, believe that there is a way and that you are on the right track even if there are hiccups.

You are worth it.

<3 Joan Nielsen