Fine take it
"Fine take it" we hear from Matt sometimes to often.
Matt is having some difficult times, stuck in his head again, angry, upset, confused and frustrated.
Reminding him of everything including to eat slowly and take smaller dites.
Slamming his bowl down on the table "Fine take it".
Trying to help him when he is like this is so very difficult.
He doesn't really want us to take his food and I don't know if he believes that's what we want.
He is just angry, confused and stuck in the past.
So what do you do?
Allow him to be who he chooses to be, remind him your trying to help, send him to his room if he gets to much and always love him unconditionally.