You have no idea what someone else is going through

Dont Judge, dont be rude for it will prove who you really are

Yesterday we went on a 4k run walk to help support a fund raiser there was Clarissa, Jaden, Loki, My mom, and myself, Mike and Matt came to watch us and support us.

While Clarissa was going into register the kids and Matt followed behind and Mike, my mom and I were a little behind them, Mom and I went back towards the car to get some water and then shortly after Mike and Matt where there with us.

When we met up with them Mike said that the Volunteers where being rude and giving them a hard time which was not nice but I didnt think much of it maybe they are just rude people.

When we went in to meet up with CLarissa and the kids I turned around and there was NO MATT, I check everywhere, where we were and NO Matt, I walked outside the door and NO Matt, I looked around the corner and there he was standing against a wall waiting, I say "Matt what are you doing out here you cant be by yourself." He says to me " I am not allowed in there"

"WHAT?, Who said you are not allowed in there?" I ask getting upset. "The guy said I cant come in" He replied to me

"Come show me who, I will let him know you can come in." I told him

Lucky for the person we couldnt find him GRRRRRRRRRRR

Because someone judged Matt he was told he was not allowed in, Because someone was rude and didnt take the time to get to know the situation Matt was standing out side by himself because he thought he couldnt come it. I was not happy. As we spoke of it trying to figure out why they would say that and why they would be so rude to people we spoke of maybe they thought Matt was homeless although he is clean, and wearing nice clothes, maybe because of the way he chose to dress they thought this, as he likes to wear his hat over his hoody and he does have a full beard or at least did. But why judge.

I found myself allowing frustration and upset before my race so I had to get a hold of my thoughts and feelings and find somethings good about the day before the run walk. So I did I started to get back to who I wanted to be and while we were on our run/ walk Mike took Matt to do something fun and he had a good time.

Yes we end up will all kinds of people and Matt does get judged and is told he can not come in, or that he cant do something no because they know him or anything but because they dont go out of their way to find out the situation to busy and to shallow to even care.

Yesterday was a good reminder for me that there are still people who will judge so let Matt know it had nothing to do with who he is or what he was doing but it had everything to do with who these people choose to be.

You get to choose who you want to be in every moment so please be KIND and STOP JUDGING because you have NO IDEA what that person is going through.